Since it is Thanksgiving week, I thought I’d write an Attitudes of Heart installation on gratefulness. Wow. I don’t feel at all adequate to write on this. I was seriously convicted of my complaining, unthankful heart. I pray God uses this to bless you and inspire you as it did me.
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“Thou that hast given so much to me give me one thing more, a grateful heart: not thankful when it pleaseth me, as if Thy blessings had spare days, but such a heart whose pulse may be Thy praise.” George Herbert
A Grateful Heart toward God
Lord, give me a heart whose pulse may be your praise, because I am indebted to you! Gratefulness is realizing we have more than we deserve and expressing our utmost thanks to God. It is more than a mere “thank you,” it is heartfelt worship and praise to a God who has richly poured out His blessings on us.
A grateful heart is full. It is overflowing with praises for everything at all times. It is so busy worshipping God, it forgets selfish wants and wishes. Like a perfuming wafting up to the throne of God, is a thankful heart singing praises to God in the midst of trials.
“I will give thanks to you, O Lord my God, with my whole heart, and I will glorify your name forever. For great is your steadfast love toward me, you have delivered my soul from the depths of Shoel.” Psalm 86:12-13
A Grateful Heart toward Others
Ok. God is perfect and extremely full of blessings, but others are human. They sin. They stomp toes. They make us mad. However, despite all their errors, there are many people God has placed in our lives who deserve our thanks.
People like thankful hearts. There is a sweet perfume that a grateful person leaves behind them. Besides smelling good though, it is necessary to have a thankful heart toward others.
Parents, teachers, pastors, leaders, godly men and women, and others all have invested in our lives some way. A complaining, unthankful spirit leaves those who invested in us feel as though they wasted their time, energy, and efforts. It is our duty to express our gratitude to them.
When we sacrifice our comfort to bless and encourage those who have benefited us, we show them our thankfulness. Showing gratefulness is more than lauding a person’s praises for a throng. It is whispering our gratitude in the tempest or standing by them in their time of trial. True gratefulness acts more than it speaks.
“When we choose the pathway of worship and giving thanks…there is a fragrance, a radiance that issues forth out of our lives to bless the Lord and others.” Nancy Leigh DeMoss
Attitudes of a grateful heart
- Humility- it realizes we have been given more than we deserve
- Joy- it maintains cheerfulness by counting it’s blessings
- Contentment- it is satisfied with its present place
- Submission- it surrenders completely to the present trials
“Thankful people are refreshing, life-giving springs, while unthankful people pull others down with them into the stagnant pools of their selfish, demanding, miserable ways.” Nancy Leigh DeMoss
Attitudes of a complaining heart
- Pride- it thinks it deserves more
- Despair- it counts the problems and lives in pessimism
- Complaint- it grumbles about every trial and circumstance
- Rebellious- it resists God’s best
“Pride slays thanksgiving, but a humble mind is the soil out of which thanks naturally grows.” Henry Ward Beecher
Practical ways to show gratefulness
- Praise the Lord at all times. Sing to God, even when you don’t feel like it.
- Read the Psalms. They’ll cure the blues. :) Pray the Psalms to God from your heart.
- Instead of complaining during trials, thank God in them. Sometimes not even praying about the trial, but praising Him for some other blessing changes your focus.
- Express gratefulness to others on a regular basis. Write notes. Make phone calls. Hold their hand and look into their eyes. Let them know you noticed and care.
- Count your blessings. Write down the things you’re grateful for.
- Live out your gratefulness. Find ways to bless others and be a continual blessings to them.
“Thanksgiving has a great curative power. The heart that is constantly overflowing with gratitude will be safe from those attacks of resentfulness and gloom that bother so many religious people.” A.W. Tozer